In any relationship, accepting influence from one’s partner is crucial for fostering a healthy, collaborative dynamic built on mutual respect. However, research shows that a concerning two-thirds of married men struggle with accepting their wife’s…
In the 1950s, as divorce rates climbed in post-World War II America, many distressed couples turned to a new field promising to save their marriages: couples therapy. But the “help” offered by self-proclaimed experts was…
Medical marriages, or marriages between physicians or healthcare practitioners, were once a rarity but have become increasingly common over the years. According to recent (2014) research by the AMA, almost 40% of doctors marry another…
You’ve realized something you didn’t want to name: you’re in an abusive relationship. Maybe the yelling doesn’t stop. Maybe it’s the silences that feel like punishment. Maybe they say they’re sorry—profusely—and promise it’ll never happen…
Are they the same? The main difference between a therapist and a psychologist is that a psychologist can be a therapist, but not necessarily. Licensed psychologists can practice as clinical or counseling psychologists and many…
What are the top 3 common relationship mistakes? What kills intimacy in a marriage? The answer might surprise you. When you fall in love, it’s easy to imagine that your healthy relationship will bring you…
Your husband is going through something hard, not life-threatening, but life-altering. His medical condition is changing how he looks, and he hates what he sees. He doesn’t want pictures taken. He brushes off your compliments….
Child care logistics, tight work schedules, booked-up reservations, pandemic-triggered introversion…there are plenty of factors that influence how we approach our traditions and rituals. Date nights are an important way to make time for each other….
Join Couples Therapy Inc therapists and other relationship experts for engaging sessions on Neurodiverse love. Online February 14-15 from 11am-7pm EST. Tickets are on sale now for the Neurodiverse Love Virtual Conference This Valentine’s Day The…
We all know the heartache of being apart from the one we love. But could that yearning to reunite actually be critical to forming an enduring bond? A groundbreaking new study suggests that how our…
A reader asked: What is a misconception that people have about sex therapists? The biggest one is that there is a lot of hot, sexy talk in a sex therapist’s office. The truth is that…
Once a cheater, always a cheater? Well, not always, but the risk does rise, according to some recent research. Prior infidelity can triple the chance of cheating on a current partner. But it turns out that…
When it comes to relationships, it is important to think of yourself as being on a team. The word relationship means “the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or…
Living in a relationship where one partner is neurodivergent brings unique challenges and opportunities. While these relationships can face communication hurdles and emotional disconnects, they also offer chances for deep understanding and growth when both…
Listen to the podcast episode here… Dr. John Gottman’s research has shown us that 69% of the challenges in romantic relationships are due to things that won’t change, and it’s important to keep this in…
Understanding how trauma affects relationships can help couples build stronger, healthier connections. When one partner has experienced trauma, especially during childhood, it can create unexpected challenges in trust, communication, and intimacy. This post explores the…
Are you struggling in your marriage after having a baby? This is common. Many couples find their relationship changes dramatically when they become parents. This article shares the real story of Carlos and Cristina, who…
Finding the right marriage retreat can feel overwhelming when your relationship needs help. Whether you’re dealing with constant arguments or growing distance, choosing the right program is a crucial step toward healing. This guide walks…
Living with an undiagnosed autistic partner can feel deeply lonely and confusing. When others don’t see or understand your relationship struggles, you might start doubting yourself. This experience, known as Cassandra Syndrome, affects many partners…
My husband and I have a pretty good marriage. We hardly ever fight but when we do, it’s about politics. We have completely different viewpoints. I hate hearing about his political beliefs and he is…
The article delves into the intricate process of navigating emotional triggers and fostering empathy after infidelity in couples therapy. Key themes include managing triggers, understanding the complexities of empathy and emotional connections, and the significance…
Long-distance relationships often get a bad rap, but research suggests they can be just as fulfilling as geographically close partnerships. In fact, according to recent studies published in the Journal of Communication, couples separated by…
Interfaith marriages have become increasingly common in America, rising from 19% before 1960 to nearly 40% of marriages since 2010. While these relationships can build bridges between different faith communities, they also present unique challenges…
Originally published August 5, 2013Updated: February 5, 2025 The Four Horsemen of Relationships – criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling, and contempt – are relationship-destroying behaviors identified by Dr. John Gottman through decades of research. Understanding these patterns…
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