Marriage counseling for military couples often focuses on the difficult challenges that couples may face. However, this post will also discuss the strengths and advantages of being in a military relationship. Joining the military provides…
My wife is very critical of my family. She is especially mean to my mother–openly criticizing her to other people and behaving quite rudely when my parents come to visit. I am the first to…
Gay relationships and lesbian relationships have unique challenges and strengths. Gay marriage counseling is much like couples counseling for all couples. There are, however, important caveats for same-sex couples. We’ll discuss some of these differences…
When someone makes you question your own reality, it can feel like slowly losing your grip on truth itself. Whether it’s a romantic partner, family member, or friend, gaslighting creates a fog of self-doubt that…
Understanding passive-aggressive behavior in relationships can feel like trying to catch smoke with your bare hands. While these patterns might start subtly, they often evolve into complex webs of mixed messages, denied emotions, and carefully…
As parents navigate marital challenges, the impact on their children often becomes a pressing concern. Research shows that specific patterns in parental relationships can significantly affect children’s emotional development and future relationships. Understanding these key…
Revised 11/17/23 You want to return to your marriage, but you also want to know how to get over your affair partner. The grief of the “unfaithful” Involved Partner is the most delicate issue in…
Apologizing to your spouse means admitting your mistakes and understanding how they have affected your partner. A sincere apology must show empathy and compassion and express genuine remorse for hurting their feelings. Avoid justifying or…
I just found some flirty messages on my husband’s phone, they are from a co-worker and this more or less confirms what I had already suspected. I am pretty sure that this is beyond flirting…
Revised 1/1/20 The Epidemic of Facebook Affairs Facebook Affairs are becoming a very hot topic in social science research. A new study by researchers at Indiana University found that Facebook users who are in ostensibly…
Definition for Infidelity Infidelity refers to breaking a commitment or being unfaithful. That might be an agreement of exclusivity in a romantic or sexual relationship. It requires acting without consent or your partner’s knowledge. It…
Updated 12/16/2023 This post explores common coping styles couples adopt after infidelity and provides guidance on more effective approaches to healing. For a broader overview of emotional affairs and the recovery process, see our Introduction…
In the landscape of relationship dynamics, stonewalling represents one of the most challenging communication patterns couples face. While the behavior might appear similar on the surface – a partner withdrawing from interaction – the underlying…
Elizabeth and Ryan, both in their late 30s, have been married for 10 years. From the outside, they seem to have a stable relationship. But behind closed doors, their dynamic is quietly corrosive. Unlike their…
If you’re considering couples therapy, you likely have one pressing question: What will this cost? While you can find basic price ranges online, understanding the real cost of couples therapy involves more than just the…
Why Couple Time Gets Lost in Parenthood Finding meaningful time with your partner while parenting can feel like chasing a mirage—just when you think you’ve found a moment, someone needs a snack, a ride, or…
Introduction: The complex phenomenon of female infidelity extends far beyond simple explanations of physical attraction or relationship dissatisfaction. This paper examines the various dimensions that influence women’s decisions to engage in extramarital relationships, drawing on…
Should I choose a male marriage counselor near me or a female counselor in my area? In choosing a counselor, the marriage and its needs take priority. When selecting a couples therapist, there are certain…
We’ve all been there – that moment when a loving relationship suddenly feels ice-cold. One partner rolls their eyes, the other responds with a biting comment, and what started as a minor disagreement spirals into…
This post explores the delicate journey toward forgiveness after infidelity. For a broader understanding of emotional affairs and recovery, see our introduction to affair recovery. Infidelity is one of the most challenging issues couples face….
As introduced in my overview article, Split-Self Affairs represents a specific pattern of infidelity with distinct characteristics. Let’s explore this phenomenon in depth. There have been many names given to Split-Self Affairs in the research…
Revised 9/28/2023 In our previous exploration of “Understanding Different Types of Affairs,” we examined how infidelity manifests in various forms, each with distinct patterns and motivations. We delved deeply into Split-Self Affairs, where partners maintain…
Getting married is an exciting milestone, but it’s just the beginning of the journey. Building a strong, healthy marriage takes ongoing effort and commitment from both partners. As a newlywed, there are many things you…
Dr. John Gottman’s extensive research spanning over four decades has intricately categorized couples into five distinct types. Among these, three are considered relatively successful and adaptive—Conflict-Avoiding, Volatile, and Validating—while the remaining two, Hostile and Hostile-Detached,…
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