Let’s talk about something that can really hurt – when your partner tries to control you. It’s not always apparent at first. Sometimes it starts small, like them getting upset when you want to see…
Navigating an emotional affair at work can feel like walking a tightrope; it’s hidden, alluring, and dangerously easy to stumble into. Recognizing the situation is the first crucial step if you’ve found yourself entangled in…
In the intricate dance of relationships, missteps and misunderstandings are almost inevitable. Yet, it’s often the smaller, overlooked actions that can either strengthen or weaken your bond. Recognizing and steering clear of these common relationship…
Originally published on June 17, 2015 When reality TV meets relationship psychology, we often get more than just entertainment – we get powerful learning moments about the complexities of marriage. The case of Ryan and…
It’s possible to feel lonely in a relationship that “works.” Real intimacy isn’t automatic—it’s built, moment by moment, in the small choices to show up, listen, and be known. Let’s explore what real intimacy looks…
Revised 12/1/23 In today’s digital age, the boundaries of infidelity have expanded beyond physical encounters. The internet has created new avenues for emotional and sexual betrayal, leaving many wondering how to identify the signs of…
Navigating a relationship with a narcissistic woman can feel like walking through an emotional minefield. Whether you’re married to someone with narcissistic traits or involved with a partner who shows these characteristics, understanding the unique…
The landscape of modern marriage is transforming before our eyes, and Millennials are leading this remarkable change. While previous generations often viewed marriage as a natural next step in life’s progression, today’s young couples are…
Updated 5/10/2025 How to Understand the Patterns, Recognize the Red Flags, and Decide What Comes Next Some couples break up and make up more often than they do laundry. It might feel dramatic and passionate,…
Deciding whether to leave a relationship is one of the most difficult and consequential choices a person can face. While there is no easy answer, some situations strongly indicate it may be time to end…
When infidelity rocks a relationship, both partners often wonder if genuine recovery is possible and what that recovery might look like. While every couple’s journey is unique, there are clear indicators that can help you…
Introduction Amidst the ebb and flow of any marriage, disagreements and arguments often find their place. Yet, what might seem like routine spats can carry far-reaching consequences, not just for the relationship but for your…
Dr. John Gottman’s 30+ years of research have consistently focused on what happy couples do differently than couples who unhappily struggle. He used to call these couples the “Masters of Marriage.” Now, (I imagine in…
He’ll secretly take away your power while denying he’s doing that. What is a Covert Narcissist Husband? In this post, I’ll describe both the seven traits of a covert narcissist and how these traits show…
When couples come to therapy, they often ask if fighting means their marriage is in trouble. The research tells us something surprising: conflict itself isn’t the problem – it’s how we handle it that matters….
Because love isn’t blind—it’s brave enough to look. So you’re thinking about forever. Maybe there’s a ring. Maybe just a shared Netflix account and a lot of hope. Either way, you’re wondering: Is this the…
by Doug Burford, Ph.D. Revised on August 11, 2023, Dr. Burford is a Christian minister practicing science-based couples therapy through Couples Therapy Inc. He works with all couples with a specialization on couples wanting a biblical…
First published February 18, 2018Updated: Jan 17, 2024 Gottman Rapoport: An Intervention in Couples Therapy One night over dinner, John Gottman was discussing his work with other renowned thinkers in psychology. His discussion reminded one…
Every couple faces conflicts, but some issues seem to defy resolution, resurfacing over and over again. Renowned relationship expert Dr. John Gottman calls these “perpetual problems” — chronic disagreements rooted in fundamental differences between partners.1…
Are you in a relationship with a man who struggles to open up about his feelings? Does he avoid emotional conversations, seem distant, or shut down when you try to connect on a deeper level?…
Digital micro-cheating can silently erode marriage boundaries. Through five real-world scenarios, discover how seemingly innocent online interactions can damage relationships and learn practical strategies to protect your marriage in the digital age. I want to…
A common question in our field is: “what predicts marital satisfaction?” It has been carefully researched and analyzed. One of the most comprehensive and fruitful longitudinal studies of its kind was conducted by CTI’s own Dr. Scott Wolfe….
What is the Zeigarnik Effect?
If you or your partner were abused as children, you may already be feeling the fallout—but not fully understanding its source. Trauma doesn’t just haunt the past. It walks into the marriage with you, often…
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