When Baby Plans Meet Medical Reality While the transition to parenthood presents its own marital challenges, research shows that infertility creates particularly intense relationship stress. Couples facing infertility often deal with communication breakdowns, difficult decision-making…
Introduction: Couples therapy has undergone a remarkable transformation in recent years, thanks in large part to the groundbreaking work of Dr. John Gottman. In this post, we will explore how Gottman’s scientific approach revolutionized the…
When married couples relocate, they face unique challenges that can deeply affect their relationship. Recent studies show that about 40% of people who move for work are married. This highlights how common this experience is…
The Problem My husband travels a lot for work. We have 2 young kids and I work part time. It’s a lot to manage on my own! I countdown the days until he comes back…
When insecure attachment styles collide, relationships can become a battleground of unmet needs and emotional turmoil. Let’s dive deeper into the challenges faced by couples with mismatched attachment styles. In my last post, I discussed common…
We’ve all experienced it: that one thought you desperately want to evict from your mind but keeps showing up uninvited. Maybe it’s a worry about the future, a past mistake that haunts you, or a…
In the quiet space of my therapy office, I often witness the profound impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships. The story of David and Iman exemplifies a journey I’ve seen countless times—where love, despite…
Individual problems in marriage counseling In relationships, sometimes the way a couple relates is the problem, and the therapist’s job is to help the couple modify their interactional styles (i.e., teaching them how to “communicate…
Introduction When Joy first walked into my couples therapy office, she was fidgeting with her phone case, her words tumbling out in a rush of frustration. Peter, her husband of three years, sat quietly beside…
It’s a common saying that money can’t buy happiness. But what if that conventional wisdom is wrong? Research suggests strategically using money to free up time by outsourcing dreaded tasks can increase happiness and well-being….
She found the messages by accident. It started with a calendar reminder that didn’t make sense—a date night on a Wednesday afternoon, marked with just a single first name. She dismissed it. But then came…
A Good Marriage Is Worth a Fortune Not just in dollars. But in direction. In stability. In sanity. If you: …you’re more likely to build lasting wealth. And I don’t just mean financial wealth. I…
Let’s start with the real question behind the polite one: “I’m married. He’s not. We connect. Is this wrong?” It’s a question I hear often—especially from women. You value this friendship. Maybe it’s energizing. Maybe…
Picture this: You’re driving with your spouse in the passenger seat. A heated argument erupts, turning your peaceful drive into a battleground on wheels. Sound familiar? You’re not alone. Research shows that car fights are…
In this post, we’ll take a closer look at the Secure-Secure attachment combination, which is the most common attachment style seen in attachment-based couples therapy. We’ll discuss the key characteristics and dynamics of this combination…
She remembers the dentist appointments. She knows which child hates mushrooms. She tracks the school calendar, answers the emails, reorders the toilet paper, and still manages to smile politely when her partner asks, “Why are…
When couples are overwhelmed by conflict, reactivity, or day-to-day disconnection, they often long for tools—concrete ways to stop the fighting, improve communication, and feel like teammates again. That’s where Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for couples enters…
Some couples come to therapy wanting quick tips. Others come because something deeper is stirring—something harder to name. If you’re not just fighting about what’s on the surface, but starting to wonder what’s under it……
At some point, every couple hits a wall. You’re arguing about the dishes… again. Or maybe you’re not arguing at all anymore—just coexisting like two ships passing in the night. You love each other, but…
Do men and women experience and express anger differently, especially in their closest relationships? As a clinical psychologist, I’ve worked with many couples struggling with ineffective or hurtful ways of dealing with conflict and intense…
Different Sex Drives in Marriage, for most couples, reminds me of this joke: Two guys are walking out of a restaurant, and one turns to the other, and in a complaining voice says: “The food…
Introduction: Have you ever found yourself in the midst of a heated argument with your partner, only to be bombarded by a barrage of seemingly unrelated complaints? This phenomenon, known as “Kitchen Sinking,” can quickly…
The Secret Weapon of Happy Couples: How to Repair Fights Before They Go Too Far Every couple fights. It’s not the conflict itself that breaks relationships—it’s what you do during and after the fight that…
Relationships are a beautiful yet complex aspect of life, and even the strongest couples face challenges. When communication breaks down, trust is broken, or external stressors take their toll, couples therapy can be a powerful…
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