No two relationships look the same. Here we honor the complexities and strengths of couples who live outside the “traditional” mold — LGBTQ+ partnerships, intercultural or interfaith couples, neurodivergent relationships, age-gap relationships, poly-leaning or non-monogamous structures, and more. Inclusive, thoughtful guidance rooted in real research and real respect.
Introduction When Joy first walked into my couples therapy office, she was fidgeting with her phone case, her words tumbling out in a rush of frustration. Peter, her husband of three years, sat quietly beside…
“My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We plan to get married. But a big hurdle is different religions. He promised he was ok with my religion, and now he’s not. We…
Selma and Ben came to me after years of living apart, given commitments to school and careers. While they formally got engaged, they were now rethinking their decision. Selma was from the East Coast and…
For LGBTQIA+ couples, the relationship itself often isn’t the hardest part. It’s everything else. It’s the stares when you hold hands. The silence after coming out. The hesitation before saying “my partner” at work. Homophobia…
Consensual non-monogamy (CNM) is becoming increasingly recognized as a valid relationship choice. If you’re in a CNM relationship or considering one, you might be wondering how therapy can support you. This guide will help you…
The biggest difference between “Christian counseling” and secular or non-religious counseling is that state-licensed professional counselors are prohibited from bringing religious beliefs or values into the counseling relationship unless that is the client’s stated desire….
Understanding and navigating the complexities of neurodiversity within relationships can be both challenging and rewarding. For neurotypical individuals partnered with neurodivergent spouses, comprehending and supporting their unique experiences, especially during meltdowns, is crucial for fostering…
In my culture, it is customary for the oldest son to financially support his parents, have them live with me, etc. However, I live in the USA and they are in my home country. My…
For many people, the holidays can bring challenges and stress, and this can be especially true for neurodivergent couples. Let’s talk about neurodiversity and how it can come into play during the holidays! What is…
Originally published January 28, 2020; Updated 12/20/2023 Navigating a neurodivergent marriage presents intricate challenges, confounding even the most skilled couples therapists. During a high-level training seminar for therapists some years back, a case was presented…
Medical marriages, or marriages between physicians or healthcare practitioners, were once a rarity but have become increasingly common over the years. According to recent (2014) research by the AMA, almost 40% of doctors marry another…
Living in a relationship where one partner is neurodivergent brings unique challenges and opportunities. While these relationships can face communication hurdles and emotional disconnects, they also offer chances for deep understanding and growth when both…
Living with an undiagnosed autistic partner can feel deeply lonely and confusing. When others don’t see or understand your relationship struggles, you might start doubting yourself. This experience, known as Cassandra Syndrome, affects many partners…
Long-distance relationships often get a bad rap, but research suggests they can be just as fulfilling as geographically close partnerships. In fact, according to recent studies published in the Journal of Communication, couples separated by…
Interfaith marriages have become increasingly common in America, rising from 19% before 1960 to nearly 40% of marriages since 2010. While these relationships can build bridges between different faith communities, they also present unique challenges…
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