Every couple knows that moment – the heated words, the defensive postures, the feeling that you’re trapped in a cycle you can’t escape. As a couples therapist, I’ve helped countless couples struggle to make sense…
Have you ever felt like you’re talking to a brick wall during an argument with your partner? That frustrating sensation when they seem to completely shut down, leaving you feeling unheard and increasingly desperate to…
Views on conflict typically break down into two distinct attitudes. Termed as “The Two Babies,” these attitudes encapsulate the stark contrast between an approach open to growth and change and another steeped in defensiveness and…
This article explores why family mealtimes matter and how to make them work in today’s busy world. You’ll learn about the proven benefits of eating together, from better grades to stronger family bonds, and get…
Discover the fascinating science behind lasting love and how our brains are uniquely wired for deep, enduring relationships. This comprehensive guide explores the interplay between initial attraction and long-term bonding, moving beyond simplistic evolutionary theories…
Living with bipolar disorder in a marriage creates unique challenges that require understanding, patience, and dedicated teamwork between partners. From managing manic episodes and depression to navigating financial decisions and emotional boundaries, couples face a…
Learning better marriage communication tools Good communication is a truism for a happy relationship. Marriage counseling teaches effective marriage communication tools, but you don’t have to spend money to learn. Yet some of the most…
Intimacy avoidance is a common challenge that affects many marriages. It often stems from an insecure attachment style developed in childhood, particularly an avoidant attachment style.1 For simplicity, this article will focus on men with…
In the intricate web of domestic violence, two distinct archetypes emerge—Cobras and Pit Bulls—crafted from the findings of extensive research conducted by Neil Jacobson, Ph.D., and John Gottman, Ph.D. Their groundbreaking work, chronicled in “When…
In the intricate dance of human connections, culture stands as the invisible architect shaping our beliefs, behaviors, and relationships. When delving into the realm of culture, seven distinct dimensions emerge, each illuminating facets that influence…
Introduction You’ve likely heard the age-old question: “What do women want from men?” Well, we’re about to dive into the fascinating world of relationship research and uncover the truth behind the myths. The Allure of…
Spouse or Mate Poaching as a Dramatic and Risky Behavior Let’s talk about a challenging reality in relationships – partner poaching. It’s a pattern where someone deliberately pursues someone already committed to someone else. While…
There are few issues more destabilizing to a marriage than one partner’s inability to feel the hurt and damage their behavior is doing to another spouse–or to care. It is called by different names: selfishness,…
First love doesn’t just pass—it prints itself on us. The intensity, the rush, the drama—it all leaves a mark. For some, it becomes a beautiful memory. For others, it quietly stalks the present, especially when…
Revised 4/19/20 Couples Therapy Inc. offers International Couples Therapy in many languages. We reach the ex-pat American, Chinese, and otherwise international community with help for issues concerning their partner intimacy and adjustment challenges. Many members…
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