Not Just About Sex. Never Was.

Reconnection starts when we stop pretending it’s just a “bedroom issue.”
This is about truth.
Longing.
And the courage to want again.


This isn’t about performance.

It’s about presence. Emotional and erotic connection. Feeling wanted—and wanting again.

The truth is, most couples wait too long.

You’ve tried being nice and friendly.
You’ve tried talking (or maybe avoiding talking).
You’ve Googled, bought toys you stuck in the drawer, and you’ve read the books.
Maybe you’ve had some “fix-it” therapy that just skimmed the surface. It might have “assigned” touch exercises or “bans” on intercourse.

This is different.
We go deeper.
Faster.
With care.

Sex therapy isn’t just for “serious problems.”
It’s for real-life lovers with real-life struggles.

Our sex therapy intensives are built to get to the heart of what’s really blocking sexual closeness—whether that’s mismatched desire, trauma, shame, resentment, avoidance, or simply years of not knowing how to ask for what you want.

We work with couples navigating:

  • Desire discrepancies (one wants more, the other less)
  • Pain during sex or arousal difficulties
  • Trouble with orgasm—either too elusive or too quick
  • Performance pressure and anxiety
  • Erotic avoidance after betrayal
  • Sexual compulsivity or out-of-control behavior
  • Recovering sexual intimacy after trauma, childbirth, infidelity, or conflict
  • Emotional gridlock about sex (you’re not just “not doing it”… you’re not talking about why)

Over a weekend.

Because an hour a week won’t cut it.

You’ve likely been stuck for years. Weekly therapy moves slowly—and often tiptoes around the hard stuff. A weekend intensive gives you the space, the privacy, and the guidance to face what’s really going on—together.

We don’t just talk about sex. We talk about power, trust, vulnerability, and how those threads pull tight behind closed doors.

Our intensives are built for couples who:

  • Still share emotional warmth, even if sex feels distant or awkward
  • Are willing to be honest—with themselves and each other
  • Want to repair and rekindle, not just “fix a problem”

If your relationship is dominated by chronic fighting, betrayal, or emotional coldness, we may recommend focusing first on emotional safety. Sex can’t thrive in a battlefield.

Your therapist will guide you through:

  • An in-depth exploration of your sexual and emotional history
  • Specific, research-based strategies to increase connection and reduce performance pressure
  • If appropriate, practical exercises to restore trust, curiosity, and erotic energy

No one is pressured to do anything physical. This is a space for emotional honesty, not performative progress.

You deserve a sex life that doesn’t feel like a negotiation.

You deserve to be wanted. To want. To laugh and explore and maybe even blush again.

Let’s get you back to a place where touch feels easy. Or new. Or just yours again.

Let’s Begin

You’ve been searching. Scanning. Maybe waiting for the right sign.

Consider this it.