Pass the Popcorn… and Get Some Couples Therapy!

Researchers were stunned to discover that divorce rates for newlyweds cut by more than half by couples watching movies about relationships and discussing them afterwards. But not just any relationship

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CBS New York: Online Couples Therapy

Online Couples Therapy is a growing phenomenon.As seen on CBS News New York. Couples Therapy Inc. is a featured website!Read more below: About Online Marriage CounselingOnline counseling has a lot

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Sexual Desire Differences

Sexual desire differences get complicated. Sometimes you hear accusations and counter-accusations like this:“You are OVER-sexed!” ”You are UNDER-sexed!”These criticisms are way of telling your

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Negative Sentiment Override: Why it all feels so Hopeless

Is Your Relationship “Hopeless?” It really feels that way for most of my couples, and I can tell you why: It’s called “Negative Sentiment Override” (NSO). It’s when

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Upcoming Professional Presentation: AS/HFA & NT Relationships

Couples that include a partner with Asperger’s Syndrome (AS), now called High Functioning Autism (HFA) can be a confusing conundrum clinically. Many with AS/HFA were already adults when, in 1994, the

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Marriage in the Movies: Boyhood

Hopefully, some time soon, you will go out and see an almost 3 hour movie about nothing in particular, and everything that’s meaningful to being human. “Boyhood” took 12 years to make,

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Portrait of a Marriage ~ Wounds that Won’t Heal

In relationships, sometimes the way a couples relate is the problem, and the therapist’s job is to help the couple modify their interactional styles (i.e.: teaching them how to “communicate

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Novel Experiences in Marriage: Always Stressful?

Studies have shown that novel experiences can actually stimulate the production of the neuro-chemicals dopamine and norepinephrine, which show up in the brain in the early, blissful stages of a relationship.

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When Life Imitates Art – A Child’s Doodle and Mother’s Letting Go

Those things you hold so dear cannot change and grow and expand unless you loosen your grip on them a little.  In sharing my artwork and allowing our daughter to be an equal in our collaborations, I helped

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3 Marital Mistakes You’re Probably Making Right Now

“Happy Families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.” —Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina, Chapter 1, first line, Russian mystic novelist (1828-1910) It turns out that

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