Marriage Retreat for Affair Recovery: Part Three – The Importance of Assessment

The essential idea behind affair recovery is that the old relationship is dead. Marginalized, split off parts of ourselves are invited back, and a new hard-won bond emerges in the couple which has learned

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The Intimate Martian – Science-based Couples Therapy Practices

In the movie “The Martian” Matt Damon’s character vows to resolve his loneliness and “science the shit out of” his existential predicament. It immediately made me think about

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Parents Fighting: The Biggest Secrets We Keep From New Parents

Parents Fighting impacts babies and children. And yet it is so common to see parents fighting after the birth of a first, second or even third child. How you fight, however, turns out to be more important

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What you Absolutely Must do about Marital Affairs

The First Rule is …….You Must Absolutely and Unequivocally Take care of yourself. If you are in just finding out about your partner’s affair..it’s probably a profound shock to your

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Marriage Retreat for Affair Recovery Part Two: Five Things You Can Do Right Now

The Neuro Science of Affair Disclosure It’s sort of therapeutic gospel to assume that discovering that your partner is having an affair is a traumatic experience. I prefer to think of that more as

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The Special Case of High School Sweethearts

Love and Marriage Between High School Sweethearts Religion, age, and location all have a part to play, but the research confirms an essential fact: those who marry their high school sweethearts will always

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Trouble If You “Friend” him Back…..

Boomer Divorce There is an epidemic of Boomer Divorce. And I wonder if the fact that we can now quickly answer the question “Whatever became of…” might not be a contributing factor to

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Are You Slipping into an Emotional Affair At Work?

How Do Office Affairs Start? So you have a buddy at work. An attractive other buddy. You laugh, you flirt.. but sometimes you share, perhaps a bit more than you ought to. At what point does your workplace

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Problems in Relationships: When to Leave a Marriage with Children

Domestic Violence You are the women we dread. Some do their best to screen you out, because we know that we have little to offer you to ease your suffering. Couples Therapy is not going to help you. I

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Marriage Problems and Solutions

Marriage problems are the same damn thing over and over again. When you have the same fight over and over again….you’re pretty much in problem land. There’s a lot of psycho-education

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