Websites & Books on Couples Therapy




Peggy Vaughn’s website where she offers free downloads of articles, BAN: beyond affairs network, a network of loyal support groups for individuals dealing with their partner’s affairs, and a vast array of information and resources.

Top 10 Most Appreciated Spousal Affirmations (and other cool stuff)

Gay Couples Institute Blog

The Premarital Conversation:


Books for Everyday People Who Like to Read

Gottman, J. M. (1999). The seven principles for making marriage work. New York: Crown Publishing.

Johnson, S. (2008). Hold me tight: Seven conversations for a lifetime of love. Boston: Little, Brown & Co.

Schnarch, D. (1999). Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships. New York: W. W. Norton & Company.

Bader, E., Pearson, P.T., Schwartz, J. (2000). Tell Me No Lies: How to Face the Truth and Build a Loving Marriage Hardcover. Golden Books Adult Publishing

Glass, S. (2004). Not Just Friends: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity. New York: Atria Books.

Vaughan, P. (2003). The Monogamy Myth: A Personal Handbook for Recovering from Affairs, Third Edition, New York: William Morrow Paperbacks.

Potter-Efron R. T., & Potter-Efron, P.S. (1995). Letting Go of Anger: The 10 Most Common Anger Styles and What to Do About Them Paperback. New York: New Harbinger >

Standford, A. (2002). Asperger Syndrome and Long-Term Relationships. London: Jessica Kingsley Publishers.

Born on the Wrong Planet by Erika Hammerschmidt

Orlov, Melissa C. (2010-09-01). The ADHD Effect on Marriage: Understand and Rebuild Your Relationship in Six Steps. FL: Specialty Press, Inc.

Hallowell M.D., E. M., Hallowell, S., Orlov, M. (2011). Married to Distraction How to Restore Intimacy and Strengthen Your Partnership in an Age of Interruption. New York: Ballantine Books.

Fast, J.A. & Preston, J.D. (2012). Loving Someone with Bipolar Disorder: Understanding and Helping Your Partner