I have practiced as a family therapist and psychologist for 25 years – and I’m still learning.
Every person I’ve had the honor of working with has taught me something about how to be more human, more authentic, and more compassionate. And I'm very grateful.
We all struggle to bring our best selves to our relationships. So although I am steeped in evidence-based practices such including Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and the Gottman Method, my work is more than science-based.
Couples therapy is sacred work for me.
I am being entrusted with a couple’s hopes to love and be loved as best they can, and I carry that responsibility with deep respect.
I love to dance, and my favorite is the Argentine Tango. Learning to dance the tango has provided some of my best training as a therapist.
In order to dance skillfully partners need to attune to each other, negotiate, balance and connect. They need to be flexible and responsive as they move together, as they easily lead or follow the other's lead. When they are overly focused on their own steps, or concentrating too hard to please their partner, the dance feels forced and awkward.
I bring the essence of tango into my work with couples. Life impact couples, and brings distress and instability into their relationship. My job is to observe where their dance is not working, and how they've become disconnected, as they work in front of me.
I look forward to the opportunity to provide a secure and safe place where couples learn how to become responsive, attuned and deeply connected with each other.
Licensed Psychologist & Health Service Provider
Massachusetts Licensed Psychologist (#6304)
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
Massachusetts Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (#766)
Ed.D. University of Massachusetts, Amherst, MA (Counseling Psychology) 1989.
M.A. Lesley University, Cambridge, MA (Counseling Psychology) 1981
B.A. University of Wisconsin, Madison, WI (Psychology) 1976
Gottman Method Couples Therapy Levels I & II
"Dr. Gorman was fantastic at listening to each of our sides, validating us, and bringing attention to what would work to build our bridges of differences toward better communication. We were fortunate to have Dr. Gorman as our therapist. We would have liked more time with her! We learned techniques to use when differences arise between us, have a stronger commitment... and how to respect those differences and compromise in a healthy way." -Recent Client
Private Practice, Amherst, MA (ongoing).
Clinician, ServiceNet Outpatient Behavioral Health Center, Amherst, MA (2010-2016)
Director, Family Therapy Team, Psychological Services Center, University of Massachusetts, Amherst, MA (1990-1993).
Psychology Department, University of Massachusetts- Amherst, MA (1989-1993).
Co-Director, Psychological Services Center - Family Therapy Training Team.
PROGRAM DIRECTOR, Marriage and Family Therapy Program, Psychology Department, Springfield College, Springfield, MA (2012-2016).
PROGRAM DIRECTOR, Marriage and Family Therapy Program, University of Saint Joseph, West Hartford, CT (2007- 2012).
FACULTY, Department of Counseling and Family Therapy, University of Saint Joseph, West Hartford, CT (1991-2012).
Department of Applied Psychology, Marriage and Family Therapy Program & Counseling Psychology Program, Antioch/New England Graduate School, Keene, New Hampshire (1991 - 1992, & 1995).
Board of Directors - Massachusetts Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (1994-2000 & 2012 - current, Executive Board Member).
Clinical Fellow & Approved Supervisor, American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy.
Educator's Summit: A Consensus Conference for Competence Training for Marriage and Family Therapists (July, 2004).
PRINCIPAL INVESTIGATOR, Healy Public Service Endowment Grant. “Providing Therapy to Cambodian Refugee Families in Hampshire County” University of Massachusetts, Amherst, 1990-1991.
Supervision Mentoring: Becoming an Effective Supervisor. Massachusetts Association for Marriage and Family Therapy Conference, Wellesley College, Wellesley MA, March 2015
Teaching “Not-Knowing.” Association for Contemplative Mind in Higher Education Meeting, Amherst College, Amherst, MA, April 2009.
Comparing American and Chinese Child Rearing Practices. Visiting Scholar Speech, Anhui Agricultural University, Hefei, Anhui, PRC, November, 1999.
International Adoption: Family-making in a Multicultural Context. American Family Therapy Academy Meeting, Minneapolis, June 21, 1997.
An Approach to Teaching the DSM. American Family Therapy Academy Meeting, Minneapolis, June, 1997.
Using the Reflecting Team Model in Supervision. Saint Joseph College Marriage and Family Therapy Supervisors’ Workshop, West Hartford, CT, Nov. 30, 1995.
Including the Family's Voice in Supervision of In-home Family Therapy. New England Regional Family-based Services Conference, Falmouth, Massachusetts, October 1995.
Pragmatics of Narrative Supervision. American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy Annual Meeting, Chicago, November 1994.
Evoking Voice: The Use of Stories in Treatment. American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy Annual Meeting, Miami, October 1992.
Think Globally, Act Systemically: Helping Refugee Families Heal. American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy Annual Meeting, Miami, October 1992.
∙ Current Trends in Evidence-Based Practices
∙ Treating Addiction in the Family
∙ Assessment in Family Therapy
∙ Interventions in Family Therapy
∙ Couples Therapy
∙ Multisystem Collaboration and Family Counseling
∙ Family Therapy Practicum
∙ Postmodern Family Therapy
∙ Introduction to Family Therapy
∙ Gender and Diversity in Family Therapy
∙ Fundamentals of Supervision
Resisting the Deficit View of Adoption. The Family Therapy Magazine, 3 (3), 2004.
Teaching Diagnosis from a Postmodern Perspective. Journal of Systemic Therapies. 20 (1), 3-11, 2001.
Perspectives on Systemic Family Therapy in America. Journal of Anhui Agricultural University, 8(4), 47-51, 1999 (in Mandarin).
The Korean Adoption Experience: A Look into Our Future? In A. Klatzkin (Ed.), Passage to the Heart: Writings from Families with Children from China. St. Paul, MN: Yeong & Yeong Book Co., 1998.
Conversations Outside the Clinic: Video Reflecting Teams for In-home Therapy and Supervision. Journal of Systemic Therapies. 14 (4), 1-15, 1995.>
Successful Adoptive Families: A Longitudinal Study of Special Needs Adoptions (with R.Tessler). Contemporary Sociology: A Journal of Reviews 26 (3), 358-359, 1997.
FACULTY FELLOWSHIP, Workforce Development in In-Home Services- Faculty Fellowship, contracted through the Yale Center for Workforce Development, 2009-2011.
Dear Dr. Gorman,
I wanted to thank you again for this past weekend. I was anxious going into the weekend knowing it would be a difficult one, and it was.
But I don't think we could have selected a better therapist. You put me at ease from the first evening we were together.I appreciate how thorough you were going through our BIG BIG Books. I am amazed at how many times you referenced something we said or a family member we talked about by name. Your genuine interest/concern for us came through very clearly to me. It made me feel very comfortable and able to express the things I haven't been able to previously. I learned a lot about myself and how I chose the path I did (even though sub-consciously in many ways). I am also grateful for the tools you gave us to help communicate more effectively. I do believe that my partner and I have both tried really hard and we are both good people. Although he and I are still struggling with how to act around one another, I am hopeful we will work together to improve that.Our departure on Sunday from your office felt very sudden (although I knew our time was winding down). We were also so emotionally drained at that point, I didn't feel I gave you a proper goodbye. I really want you to know how much I appreciate everything you did for us. My husband and I both agreed on our ride home (regardless of the outcome of our relationship/marriage) that we were glad we went.
- Recent Couples Retreat Participant