Faster, Effective Personal Results.

A single weekend to renew your love...

An Individualized Couples retreat with just the two of you and one highly trained expert:

  • Fast:   One weekend vs. 6 months of therapy
  • Effective: Real help based upon 40+ years of scientific research with 3,000+ couples.
  • Personal: You won't learn cookie-cutter “communication” skills. We focus on your specific particular relationship challenges.

" Angela was fantastic!! Outstanding!!"

We were in crisis. We had been dealing with infidelity and although we were discussing things on our own and making progress, we definitely needed therapy to help sort through things. I was looking for tools to help me cope and heal from the hurt and move forward in a positive manner. I wanted to learn to trust again. I wanted to learn how to focus and sort through my emotions and decide what I wanted from my relationship and my life.

What changes resulted in your relationship from your work with Couples Therapy Inc.?

We have learned to focus on each other more and communicate better. We are more honest with each other and with ourselves about what we want and what we need. We are much stronger and closer than we ever have been.

What specific qualities did you like most and least about working with this therapist?


Angela was very authentic, honest, confident, neutral, passionate, intuitive, unbiased/non-judgemental, warm, compassionate, focused, organized, patient, encouraging, good, excellent communicator and listener, good problem solver.

Would you recommend your couples therapist and Couples Therapy Inc? If so, why?

I would absolutely highly recommend Angela (I already have to a few friends)

What three benefits resulted from working with Couples therapy Inc?

We are closer, more appreciative of one another, we communicate better, we are more honest with one another, we are more in love now than ever!! We are getting married!!

Angela was just wonderful. She was above and beyond what we expected our therapist would be. We felt at ease/comfortable with her immediately. She has great energy! She related to us very well. She was knowledgeable and familiar with us and our issues and knew what to approach and how to approach sensitive subjects. She had the ability to assess our situation/issues/questions and give explanations and advise accordingly. She handled emotional conversations very well and was able to diffuse potentially harmful conversations and re-direct them to the positive.

I would definitely recommend Angela to others looking for couples counseling."

- for Angela Voegele (Couples Therapy Inc., Maryland /DC Retreats also in Florida & Hawaii)

Imagine Your Marriage Transformed
into a More Passionate Union...

If you aren't getting along with the person who once meant the world to you, there is important new information you should know.

It's a way of intervening  that stops your fast-moving train into greater marital misery or divorce.

You'll exit the 'divorce super-highway.'

No more endless bickering or cold-shoulder bedtimes. 

Or vacations and romantic evenings that end in disaster. 

Don't make the same mistake I did, and let a perfectly good marriage go down the drain.

Angela has, by far, exceeded all of our expectations.
- About Angela Voegele, MSW (Gottman Certified Couples Therapist., Maryland / DC / Florida/ Hawaii)
“My own marital failure drove me to invest 20 years of study, and learn 5 different models of couples therapy. The results?"

A science-based Couples Retreat that helps couples achieve genuine emotional closeness and sexual connection.

Dr. Kathy McMahon is the Founder and President of Couples Therapy Inc.  A clinical psychologist, she is one of a handful of Certified Gottman Couples Therapists on the planet who is also an AASECT Board-certified Sex Therapist.  She is a Clinical Fellow of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, and has also trained in both Emotionally-focused Couples Therapy and The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy.  She designed this Couples Retreat after 20 years of study.

The End of a Marriage that Didn't Have To...

Do you harbor misguided notions about love and marriage?  Most couples do.  Even many THERAPISTS do.  I know I did when my own marriage had problems...

As a clinical psychologist I worked with couples, but these very misguided notions not only limited my impact as a couples therapist, they destroyed my own marriage.

If you think psychologists have just as many problems as the average person... you'd be right.

I've had my share.

Ask my ex-husband. 

I divorced a perfectly nice guy and the father of my child.  Oh, I had my reasons.  And most of them were a bunch of "pie in the sky" ideas I got from theories I learned while in graduate school.  They were wrong-headed notions about why marriages fail and how to fix them.

There are still plenty of these myths out there.

Like how about THIS MYTH:

"The severity of your problems predicts the likelihood of divorce."

Nope.  Wrong.  False.

Back then, I did what most people do, "I used my health insurance," and went to a counselor.

But instead of getting help, those weekly 45-minute sessions left me angrier, more hopeless, and totally, totally misunderstood. And we left each session more upset than when we arrived!

Communication skills aren't  enough.

If you've see a therapist for your troubled marriage, you were probably told to practice “good communication skills."

I thought that's all I was doing...yak, yak, yakking without impacting!

Like most women facing divorce, it only took a few sessions before I became totally disillusioned.

I thought we were 'broken.'

I went through a painful divorce.

It cost me big time, not only economically, but emotionally, too, and everything got a lot more complicated. Two houses. Two mortgages. A daughter running between families. Two different sets of rules.

Divorce is one of the most stressful events in an adult's life, according to research. Even worse on children, despite the media hype.

Divorce is costly, not just financially, but emotionally too.  It costs your kids, as well as your future security.  Preventing it is well worth the effort..."

Later on, I remarried a “completely different guy.”  And guess what?

These same problems reappeared!

I thought to myself: “How could I be so unlucky?”

But it wasn't a matter of "luck" at all.

I was the same person...

...with the same problematic way of relating to my intimate partner.

I could divorce my ex- but not "myself."

As Aimee Mann says: "It's not going to stop 'til you wise up..."

And you know what?  She's right.

Leaving a marriage, when you don't know what you're doing wrong (...or just blaming your spouse..) means it's not going to stop for you, either.

Unless you figure out what you're doing wrong in your marriage and fix it, you're doomed to repeat it.

Don't give up!  Wise up!

In 1998, I attended my first training presented by Dr. John Gottman, the pre-eminent researcher​ on couples.  What he taught me was fascinating. 

We now know scientifically why marriages succeed or fail!

(Let one of his Master Trainers teach you to be a "Master of Marriage" too!)

"I feel a great sense of relief after our Couples Retreat weekend with Angela..."

"Angela was a wonderful therapist and truly advocated for both of us, and our relationship, throughout the weekend intensive. Her approach was thoughtful, logical and easy to follow. She listened to our concerns and organized the weekend in a meaningful way to cover many of our needs.

The feedback she provided was constructive and professional.I really feel a great sense of relief after our Couples Retreat weekend with Angela. The follow up work and reading she gave us provides the framework we need to continue the work on our own.

I would definitely recommend Angela to others looking for couples counseling."

- for Angela Voegele (Couples Therapy Inc., Maryland /DC Retreats also in Hawaii)

Your Troubled Marriage Needs Skillful Care & Attention.

Five Certified Gottman Therapists are on our team.  
Two are MASTER TRAINERS for the Gottman Institute!

"We know a lot about you and your marriage, before you arrive..."

Like a diamond, your marriage is the hardest “jewel” in the rocky world of relationships. But with a magnifying glass, precision skill, the jeweler's tap brings out the luster.  Many marriage are rough stones with hidden brilliance.  Just waiting to shine.

Careful assessment is our "magnifying glass." "The BIG BIG Book" (which included a Gottman Assessment and a lot more...) allows us take a closer look at you as an individual in your marriage.  It's an online tool.  Completing it will have a huge impact on you, too.  Our couples tell us it was the start of their couples retreat therapy.

This online assessment is scored, and your words are carefully read and analyzed, side-by-side with your partner's tome.  We do this before we even meet.

When you arrive at this couples retreat, we'll explore your early relationship history, "The Story of Us," and with your therapist, you'll work collaboratively, constructing your most critical relationship goals during our time together.

With the help of The BIG BIG Book, you'll be asked finely-tuned questions about your marital issues.​

How Our Couples Retreat Intensives Can Change Your Life:

The Focus is on Nurturing Real & Lasting Change

"You'll have a Couples Retreat Expert for an entire weekend, devoted to helping you resolve your most formidable relationship challenges. Choose with confidence. We have the most experienced couples therapists in the world..."

Instead of seemingly endless weekly "45-minute sessions," you'll spend a solitary weekend--just the two of you...alone. 

Relaxed. Away from the hassles of your everyday lives.

You put a lot of faith in us.  We get that.

We Honor Your Trust.

A shocking 80% of therapists are convinced they already know how to do couples therapy.  Yet only 12% of these therapists have ever completed a single course in couples therapy!

And yet, this is challenging and specialized work. Easy to get wrong. 

And then your whole world blows up...

Have you tried couples therapy in the past and failed?  Do you believe that your marriage is severely, and hopelessly damaged?

Your overly-confident and poorly trained therapist might be to blame. 

In contrast, our therapists are among the most highly trained couples therapists available today.
All have at least one formal, evidence-based certificate in couples therapy.  

You entrust us with your marriage and family.

And we take that responsibility seriously.

If you're disillusioned with love, consider the benefits of this scientific couples retreat:

We'll Work Fast

Forget 6 months of 45-minute sessions that stop at the height of your fight... "See you next week!" Science says:"Not enough time!"

Personalized Help

These aren't generic “communication skills training" with 5-250 other couples. Our approach is precise and intimate.


Not someone's biased 'personal opinions.'  This help is based upon 40+ years of research with over 3,000 couples.

Who Should Attend a Couples Retreat...

We tailor these couples retreats to those most likely to benefit. 
Our expert Gottman Certified Couples Therapist Ms. Vogele accept no more than 15 couples per year.

"The Berkshires Provide a Gorgeous Setting for this retreat."

We hold our Couples Retreat in 15 attractive locations:  In Boston, Massachusetts, and in Washington DC / Maryland; Atlanta, Georgia; Miami & Boca Raton, Florida; Charleston, South Carolina; Chicago, Illinois; Las Vegas, Nevada; Overland Park, Kansas (Kansas City); Minneapolis, MN;  Old San Juan, Puerto Rico; Oahu, Hawaii; Austin & Houston, Texas; Missoula, Montana; Blaine, Washington;  Orange County and Los Angeles County, California.  In Europe?  Visit us in Ireland. Australia? On the Gold Coast. South Africa? The Western Cape.

Who Should Attend

A Couples Retreat is designed for those in mild, moderate or severe relationship distress.

Couples who are actively willing to work on their marriage/relationship.

Couples who are emotionally dysregulated (loud fighting, shouting, emotional outbursts, crying)

Couples struggling with an affair who have had time to process the implications.

Couples who are disconnected, distant, asexual, or cold.

Marriages in which one partner is selfish, bossy, irresponsible, or self-absorbed.

Those who are unhappily living together, separated, legally married or not.

Couples who have good reasons to stay married, but are ambivalent.

Who Should NOT Attend

We cannot accept couples who engage in regular and ongoing physical violence.

Where one partner is actively drug or alcohol addicted and requires in-patient care.

When an active and untreated mental illness is destroying your marriage.

When an affair was discovered within the last week. Fresh disclosures are too stressful for immediate intensive work.

When having an undisclosed affair (see us for Discernment Counseling, instead...)

Where one partner refuses to complete the assessment prior to the retreat.

When one partner is unwilling to put genuine effort into changing their marriage. If the motivation is to "check the box" or "let their partner down easy," this is not for you.

Contact Us With Your Questions

Our couples retreats are in high demand.  They book quickly.

This Couples Retreat is Run by Experts:
There is Nothing "Cookie Cutter" About It.

There are less expensive alternatives...

If your relationship is strong, go to a group workshop. These lower cost  educational offerings provide general guidance on improving your relationship.

However, if you're in acute marital distress, get the private, one-to-one help you need.

Our Couples Retreat experts can transform your relationship.

​Pick the best weekend for you, and reserve your Intensive Couples Retreat today. 

Don't ignore your relationship problems and hope they go away.

Summary of What You’ll Get...

Couples Retreat Outline:

  • The BIG BIG Book Online Assessment
  • 2 hour "Warm Up" session
  • Two full days:  9:30 am - 4:30 pm

Before You Attend You Will:

  • Receive and complete your BIG BIG Book. It must be finished two week prior to your intensive
  • Receive directions and a list of recommended food & lodging venues.  BOOK EARLY!
  • Receive your therapist's contact phone number the day before your marriage retreat
  • Arrive early.  Rest up before your "Warm up" Session
  • Have a great couples retreat!

After Your Couples Retreat:

  • Complete an evaluation of your experience

What You Get:


A Complete, One-to-One, Private Retreat conducted by a Couples Therapist of your choice.


Enroll in Dr. K's weekly informative: "The Science of Relationships."
to reinforce your learning.


Enjoy your time away to learn and share together to improve your marriage.


We regret that we cannot accept reservations without payment. 

"I go through 1,000 resumes each year, looking for the best-trained couples therapists from around the world.  I hand-pick and hire the best, and then provide individual and group seminars, supervision, and case consultations, so that you are assured of an exceptionally well-trained couples therapist. I stand behind our Team.  If you are not 100% satisfied with your experience in our unique Couples Retreats, contact me personally so that I can make it right.."


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