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Alienation of Affection and Homewrecker Laws

Alienation of Affection and Homewrecker Laws A lot of people don’t know that engaging in infidelity can sometimes have legal and financial consequences. What are Alienation of Affection and homewrecker

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Is There Hope For My Marriage After Separation?

The Lure of Marriage Separation. Most Online Advice is Totally Wrong. Revised 1/24/20 Is There any Hope for My Marriage After Separation? I hear that question a lot. And in this post, I’m going to

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Children of Divorce

Children of Divorce Revised 12/31/19 I am often asked about children of divorce. Wives sometimes ask me, “do you think I should stay in a miserable marriage just for the sake of my kids?” This

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Gray Divorce

What is Gray Divorce? Gray divorce is how couples therapists describe the abrupt increase in divorce among couples 50 years old and older. Typically these couples are tossing in the towel after 20 years

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Adult Children of Divorce

Adult Children of Divorce Adult Children of Divorce suffer too. There is a robust cultural belief that adult children, once successfully launched, are relatively unimpacted by their parent’s divorce.

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My Wife Hates Me…and Took All My Nobel Prize Money!

Intelligence is Not Wisdom “My wife hates me.” This is the lament of many men who call us looking to save their marriage. But you don’t have to be an idiot to mess up your marriage. You

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Five Styles of Co-Parenting After Divorce

Several research studies over the last 30 years have uncovered 5 primary styles of co-parenting after divorce. The first 3 are considered to be more or less functional, all things considered. The first

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Divorce with Kids: Help Your Kids Survive

Divorce with Kids: Four Steps to Minimize the Impact Divorce with kids in mind. Here we discuss how to minimize the effects of divorce on children by taking good care of your own needs, explaining divorce

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