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Why Is My Husband So Angry?

This article is part of the Why Couples Fight SeriesI Have an Angry Husband...Why?Here's the bottom line: Men are different. When men are in a conflictual situation, they tend to get overwhelmed

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Angry Wife? Why? And What Can I Do About it?

This article is part of our Why Couples Fight SeriesI have an angry wife...Why?There's an old phrase: "When Mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy."Research bears that out.An angry wife typically battles

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Marital Fight Autopsy…EFT Model

This article is part of our Why Couples Fight Series Emotionally-Focused Therapy and the Marital Fight AutopsyWhen it comes to marital fight dissection, evidence-based Emotionally-Focused Therapy

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Marital Fight Autopsy…Developmental Model

This article is part of our Why Couples Fight SeriesThe Developmental Model and the Marital Fight AutopsyIn my internship, I studied a model of Couples Therapy called the Developmental Model. This

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Marital Fight Autopsy… Gottman Model

This article is part of our Why Couples Fight Series Marital Fight... Autopsy?Yes, I mean Autopsy. Let's assume Dick and Jane had a marital fight which started on February 13th at 1:06 pm. There was the

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Stonewalling… the Story and the Science

This article is part of the Why Couples Fight SeriesStonewalling... How it Begins.Perhaps you've had this experience. You are having a spirited debate with your husband. The temperature is beginning

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3 Demon Dances: the Protest Polka, Freeze and Flee, and Find the Bad Guy

Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples and The Demon Dances Revised 1/1/20   Gottman Method and Emotionally-Focused therapy for couples are the two most significant and widely available evidence-based

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Four Fibs about Fighting for New Couples

Fighting For New Couples Fighting for new couples can be very anxiety provoking. There are many myths about marital conflict. Here are 4 common ones. It’s a Really Bad Sign If You Fight During

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Mindfulness During Marital Conflict

The Next Time You Find Yourself Fighting With Your Partner, use Mindfulness in Marital Conflict: Accept What You are Feeling and Notice Where it Dwells Notice your breath. Sit with whatever it is. Sadness,

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The Walk Away Wife Syndrome

What is Walk Away Wife Syndrome? Revised 12/31/19 Well over a million marriages that will end in divorce in 2017, about two-thirds of those divorces will be filed for by women. Who is the Walk Away Wife

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