Category Archives for Attachment Issues
Emotionally Unavailable Men and The Guy Code
The Problem of Emotionally Unavailable Men Revised 5/13/19 Every woman has probably experienced a man they were dating suddenly get cold feet, and wondered if he were one of those emotionally unavailable
Continue readingRelationships from Hell
First, the Anxious-Preoccupied Relationships from Hell The Important thing to remember is that we are all struggling to gain mastery over our childhood attachment injuries. We select partners who we feel
Continue readingAttachment Styles and Couples Therapy Intensives
Why Is Our Attachment Style So Important? In the last post I wrote about the importance of attachment styles, and how the science of human attachment is helping couples therapy to achieve an effectiveness
Continue readingAttachment-Based Couples Therapy and Attachment Theory
Attachment Theory…a Brief Overview Revised 1/9/20 Attachment-based couples therapy dominates the field of couples counseling. The fundamental premise of Attachment Theory is that we learn how
Continue readingUnderstanding the Intimacy Avoidance Marriage
Understanding The Intimacy Avoidance Marriage Revised 1/4/20 Intimacy Avoidance is a concept that might seem confusing. We pretty much accept the fact that being human means being normatively wired to
Continue readingEmotional Distance in Marriage
Camilla partially blames herself, because the emotional distance in marriage was just too upsetting to her. She says, “I should leave him alone more, like he asks, but I just can’t. I’m
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