The Problem of Emotionally Unavailable Men Revised 5/13/19 Every woman has probably experienced a man they were dating suddenly get cold feet and wondered if he were one of those emotionally unavailable
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Continue readingWhy Is Our Attachment Style So Important? In the last post I wrote about the importance of attachment styles, and how the science of human attachment is helping couples therapy to achieve an effectiveness
Continue readingAttachment Theory…a Brief Overview Revised 1/9/20 Attachment-based couples therapy dominates the field of couples counseling. The fundamental premise of Attachment Theory is that we learn how
Continue readingUnderstanding The Intimacy Avoidance Marriage Revised 1/4/20 Intimacy Avoidance is a concept that might seem confusing. We pretty much accept the fact that being human means being normatively wired to
Continue readingEmotional Neglect in MarriageEmotional distance in marriage also called emotional neglect in marriage is a painful dynamic. It's a lack of emotional support or feeling emotional intimacy with their partner.
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