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Emotionally Unavailable Men and The Guy Code

The Problem of Emotionally Unavailable Men Revised 5/13/19 Every woman has probably experienced a man they were dating suddenly get cold feet, and wondered if he were one of those emotionally unavailable

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Relationships from Hell

First, the Anxious-Preoccupied Relationships from Hell The Important thing to remember is that we are all struggling to gain mastery over our childhood attachment injuries. We select partners who we feel

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Attachment Styles and Couples Therapy Intensives

Why Is Our Attachment Style So Important? In the last post I wrote about the importance of attachment styles, and how the science of human attachment is helping couples therapy to achieve an effectiveness

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Attachment-Based Couples Therapy and Attachment Theory

Attachment Theory…a Brief Overview Revised 1/9/20  Attachment-based couples therapy dominates the field of couples counseling. The fundamental premise of Attachment Theory is that we learn how

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Understanding the Intimacy Avoidance Marriage

Understanding The Intimacy Avoidance Marriage Revised 1/4/20 Intimacy Avoidance is a concept that might seem confusing. We pretty much accept the fact that being human means being normatively wired to

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Emotional Distance in Marriage

Camilla partially blames herself, because the emotional distance in marriage was just too upsetting to her. She says, “I should leave him alone more, like he asks, but I just can’t. I’m

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