Premarital Counseling

Love is Blind, But You Don’t Have to Be.

With Our Online PreMarital Counseling we don’t need a crystal ball to predict your marital happiness.

We Use Science.

We have over 40 years of research that makes us confident in our answers.

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Why Online Premarital Counseling?

Couples with premarital counseling reported higher levels of marital satisfaction and experience a 30% decline in the likelihood of divorce over five years.

Here are a few figures to consider:

Cost of an Average Wedding in US dollars

Cost of Average Divorce in US Dollars
The largest wedding attendance. (1993. Jerusalem)

Percentage of brides who wear a diamond on the fourth finger of their left hand.

The longest wedding dress, in feet. (found in Germany).

Average cost of a wedding dress.

The amount (in billions) the wedding industry generated in the United States each year for wedding and ceremony related expenses.

percentage of people to remarry, on average, within a year after divorce

Average expenses in US dollars, paid for honeymoons in the USA.

Percentage of new marriages each year in the US that are remarriages

Percentage of engaged couples who retain a wedding consultant

Average cost (in US dollars) for a wedding consultant in the Northeast

Average cost of Pre-marital Group Seminars (per couple)

percentage of couples reporting that they were helped in Couple Therapy according to research finding

How Healthy Will Your Marriage Be?

We have an incredibly powerful Consultation Tool our clients call The BIG BIG Book. This is the most thorough assessment of your relationship dynamics you will find ANYWHERE.

And you complete it online!

You’ll each get your own BIG BIG Book to complete on your own, then we pair you up with one of our experienced Couples Therapists, who’ll get to know you, as an individual and as a couple.

This is not a quick, general online survey. It’s Personalized, Tailored, and Focused Specifically on You, as People, and as a Loving Pair.

Feedback Session

We provide you over 1 hour and 20 minutes of feedback to you.

  • Practical.
  • Concrete.
  • Apply them right now, and notice a difference in how you relate, BEFORE the wedding.

These suggestions that will help you get on and stay on the path to becoming the “Masters of Marriage.”

These Online Premarital Questions includes Three Parts:

Part One: How Healthy is Your Relationship?

  • This part includes standard instruments that have measured marital happiness for over 50 years. It is scored.
  • The Gottman Method Couples Therapy assessment tools. John Gottman is the #1 Global Expert in Couples Research. He has been able to predict divorce with over 90% accuracy, as a result of his 42 years of research on couples.
  • 1.5-2 hour Interview about The Story of Your Relationship.

Part One A (Optional): How Healthy is Your Relationship Sexually?


The BIG BIG Book of Sexuality – 90 Questions about sexuality

  • One set of questions from Gottman.
  • Two instruments that look at sexuality, designed by Dr. Kathy McMahon.
  • One about “orgasmic” ease. (“How easy is it for you to reach a climax?”)
  • A second about “Sexual Styles” of relating.


Part Two: How Healthy are Each of You?

The BIG BIG Book asks about:

  • Family History;
  • Individual and Family Stressors;
  • Mental Health Screening;
  • Individual Assessment tools including Attachment Styles.
  • You’ll also get a 45-minute Online Video conference with a to understand you better.

We’ve put it all online, so you can complete this Comprehensive Pre-martial Assessment in the privacy of your own home.

Highly Skilled Professionals in Couples Therapy to Consult with.

Questionnaires are helpful, but not enough.

Online, each of you meet with our licensed professional marriage counselors.

  • Once together for “The Story of Us”
  • Once alone
  • …Then You’ll have over 1 hour 20 minutes of Feedback about You and Your Relationship!
  • It can all be done over three weeks. In plenty of time to still pick out your flowers and band…

Our Couples Therapists:

Our International Team of Clinicians are all highly trained specialists in Premarital Counseling.We Only Work with Couples!(okay, the dog has no special training couples therapy. He’s just cute…)


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Ready to start your journey to “divorce-proof” your Marriage?

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