Sexless Marriage & the Politics of Wanting

This is the third in a series of post on Profiles in MarriageTina and Bill* have been married 22 years. They have one son in college, and another finishing High School this year. If you met them, you would

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International Couples Advice

Often international couples advice often sees difference and novelty as a stress in these marriages.  But does it have to be? In reality, studies have shown that novel experiences can actually stimulate the

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Sex Tips for Mature Couples

No one assumes sexuality is a right for those over 50. You have to grab it. Here are three sex tips for mature couples you can use today. Viagra alone is no promise for a satisfying, intense sexual relationship.

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The Myth of Sexual Chemistry

The “Perfect Partner” Means Matching Sexual Styles. “It’s not ‘chemistry,’ It’s STYLE.” “Anyone who tells you there’s an easy answer to resolve problems

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Is Dog’s Mouth Cleaner Than a Human’s Mouth?

Yes. I learned that in school, during a sex therapy course, decades ago, and my dental hygienist confirmed it again. Who cares? Clients sometimes have concerns about oral sex because they are usually reluctant

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Ecological Heroes: Rex Weyler

Rex Weyler, a personal friend and Co-founder of Greenpeace, talks about our current predicament. In the 1970s, Weyler served as one of the  co-founder of Greenpeace International and editor of the Greenpeace

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Dealing with Loneliness

How the hell can a person Go to work in the morning And come home in the evening And have nothing to say” Angel From Montgomery, written by John Prine. Sung by Bonnie Raitt   So many people battle

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Five Good Reasons to Love an Aspie

Okay, so many people right off are going to say any “Reason to Love an Aspie” are generalizations and these aren’t true of everybody with Aspergers Syndrome. They say, (and with good

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Ecological Catastrophe – Grieving the Loss

Loving the land means grieving the loss.  Ecological Catastrophe is a silent influencer. I’m internationally known for my writing about the psychological impacts of Peak Oil, environmental degradation,

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Gottman’s Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse

Research has shown that there are some patterns of interaction in a relationship that are very destructive to love: the four things that really destroy marriages. The four interactions below are the

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